Providing Doula Services and Birth Photography to Chatham Kent, Sarnia, Windsor and surrounding areas

Photobucket My name is BJ Kivell and I am the mother of 6, a certified Birth Doula and a photographer :) Having my babies has been one of the most beautiful parts of my life. I am awed by the beauty of pregnancy and the miracle of birth! I believe that these are very special times in a family's life that should be cherished, treasured and enjoyed. I am passionate about all things related to pregnancy, birth, and parenting. My desire is to help other families through the wonderful experience of expecting and welcoming a new child into their lives.

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Midwifery Care….Did you know?

After having the extreme privilege of having  midwives attend the birth of my last baby I have wanted everyone to know how AWESOME midwifery care is!

A lot of my family and friends had NO idea what a midwife was. What do they do? How much do they cost?

Did you know that midwives are covered by OHIP and you do not have to pay a thing!

Did you know that you will have a short wait and a nice LONG appointment with your midwife. You will not feel rushed and your questions are welcomed and answered :)  Midwives build relationships with their clients. Visits last 30-45 mins.

Did you know that you do not need a referral to receive midwifery care. Simply call the office as soon as you find out that you are expecting :)

Did you know midwives are specialized primary care providers for low risk pregnancies.

Did you know midwives can arrange all routine prenatal testing including ultrasound and genetic screening, as well as standard laboratory and diagnostic tests. Midwives discuss the results with clients and provide information and follow-up.

Did you know midwives are available 24 hours a day/ 7 days a week for urgent concerns.

Did you know options for pain management, including epidural, are available to midwifery clients.

Did you know that with a midwife you have a choice of birthplace. You can deliver your baby at the hospital or at home.

Did you know that your midwife will do the first few postpartum visits and baby well check ups in your home! Yes they come to your home 2-3 times in the first week-two after having your baby. Now that is personalized care :)

Did you know your care with your midwife lasts 6 weeks postpartum!

Did you know midwives are AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are so blessed to have these wonderful ladies in our community! I really cannot say enough about how wonderful their care is!

If you are interested in learning more about midwifery care or would like to have a midwife for your pregnancy check out their website, of visit them on facebook.  You will be SO glad you did :)

The Essential Ingredient: Doula

Every Birth is Different

If you have had more than one childbirth experience did you find them to be different????

I read this article today…

How were your birth’s different than each other? Was your 2nd birth faster? Did you find subsequent birth’s easier?

Why Hire a Doula????

“Birth is not only about making babies. Birth is about making mothers…strong, competent, capable mothers who trust themselves and know their inner strength.” -Barbara Katz Rothman

Pregnancy and Childbirth is one of the most exciting, most memorable times of a family’s life.

Birth is a natural, beautiful process that can be enjoyed!

As a mom of 5 looking back at my birth experiences I am filled with joy! Every one of my births was unique but I absolutely enjoyed them all! I cherish those memories of excitement, wonder and the beautiful first moments of meeting my baby!

A doula is there to help you have a positive, memorable birth experience. To help you birth the way YOU want to birth.

What is a Doula?

A doula is a professional trained in childbirth who provides emotional, physical and informational support to the mother who is expecting, is experiencing labor, or has recently given birth. The doula’s purpose is to help women have a safe, memorable and empowering birthing experience.

What does a doula do?

Most doula-client relationships begin a few months before the baby is due. During this period, they develop a relationship where the mother feels free to ask questions, express her fears and concerns, and takes an active role in creating a birth plan. Most doulas make themselves available to the mother by phone in order to respond to her questions or explain any developments that might arise during the course of the pregnancy. Doulas do not provide any type of medical care. However, they are knowledgeable in many medical aspects of labor and delivery.  They can help their clients gain a better understanding of the procedures and possible complications of late pregnancy or delivery.

During delivery, doulas are in constant and close proximity to the mother. They have the ability to provide comfort with pain relief techniques that include breathing techniques, relaxation techniques, massage, and laboring positions. Doulas also encourage participation from the partner and offer reassurance. A doula acts as an advocate for the mother, encouraging and helping her fulfill specific desires that she might have for her birth. The goal of a doula is to help the mother experience a positive and safe birth, whether a natural birth, a medicated birth or cesarean.

After the birth, many labor doulas will spend some time helping mothers begin the breastfeeding process and encouraging bonding between the new baby and other family members.

Why Use a Doula?

Studies have shown that when doulas attend birth, labors are shorter with fewer complications, babies are healthier and they breastfeed more easily.

A Birth Doula

  • Recognizes birth as a key experience the mother will remember all her life
  • Understands the physiology of birth and the emotional needs of a woman in labor
  • Assists the woman in preparing for and carrying out her plans for birth
  • Stays with the woman throughout the labor
  • Provides emotional support, physical comfort measures and an objective viewpoint, as well as helping the woman get the information she needs to make informed decision
  • Facilitates communication between the laboring woman, her partner and her clinical care providers
  • Perceives her role as nurturing and protecting the woman’s memory of the birth experience
  • Allows the woman’s partner to participate at his/her comfort level

What are the benefits of having a doula?

Numerous studies have documented the benefits of having a doula present during labor. With the support of a doula, women were less likely to have pain relief medications administered, less likely to have a cesarean birth, and reported having a more positive childbirth experience.

Other studies have shown that having a doula as a member of the birth team decreases the overall cesarean rate by 50%, the length of labor by 25%, the use of oxytocin by 40% and requests for an epidural by 60%.

Doulas often use the power of touch and massage to reduce stress and anxiety during labor. According to physicians Marshal Klaus and John Kennell, massage helps stimulate the production of natural oxytocin. The pituitary gland secretes natural oxytocin to the bloodstream, causing uterine contractions, and to the brain, resulting in a feelings of well being, drowsiness and higher pain threshold. By contrast, because synthetic IV oxytocin cannot cross into both the blood stream and the brain, it increases contractions without the positive psychological benefits of natural oxytocin.

What about the father’s role when using a doula?

The role of the doula is never to take the place of husbands or partners in labor, but to compliment and enhance their experience. Today, more husbands are an active role in the birth process. However, some partners prefer to enjoy the delivery without having to stand in as the labor coach. By having a doula as a part of the birth team, a father is free to do whatever he chooses. Doulas can encourage the father to use comfort measures and can step in if he wants a break. Having a doula allows the father to support his partner emotionally during labor and birth and to also enjoy the experience without the added pressure of trying to remember everything he learned in childbirth class!

With a Doula present, the pressure on the partner is also decreased, allowing participation at an optimum comfort level and increasing the enjoyment of the birth of the baby. Ideally, the Doula and the partner make the perfect support team for the woman, complementing each other’s strengths.

Are doulas only useful if planning an un-medicated birth?

The presence of a doula can be beneficial no matter what type of birth you are planning. Many women report needing fewer interventions when they have a doula. But the primary role of the doula is to help mothers have a safe and pleasant birth–not to help them choose the type of birth. For women who have decided to have a medicated birth, the doula will provide emotional support, informational support and comfort measures through labor and the administration of medications. Doulas work alongside medicated mothers to help them deal with possible side effects and other needs where medication might be inadequate, because even with medication, there is likely to be some degree of discomfort.

For a mother facing a cesarean, a doula can be helpful by providing constant support and encouragement. Often a cesarean results from an unexpected situation leaving mothers feeling unprepared, disappointed and lonely. A doula can be attentive to mothers at all times throughout the cesarean, letting them know what is going on throughout the procedure. This can free the partner to attend to the baby and accompany the newborn to the nursery if there are complications.

A doula is different from a midwife or doctor, as they DO NOT perform any medical tasks.

If you are thinking of hiring a doula or have more questions send me an e-mail :)

kivells@cogeco.ca

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